We have all been given an opportunity to relax into finding a relationship with others or some group that works for us intimately and spiritually. The following suggestions are offered that would improve the probabilities of creating a relationship that works for you now.
First:
A relationship needs to have a soul purpose in mind, thus a set of real needs that this relationship is intended to promote for each one in the relationship, and likewise for the larger group. The following is an evaluation method offered to evaluate your soul’s position on the manifestation of ideal relationships which is already being co-created or perfected life after life:
It has come to pass that these relationships will provide you with a greater depth of self-perspective in these four areas: Self-beauty; Self-creative potential; Self-wisdom, and Self-acceptance. You will be relating with these persons or groups in such a way as to create a relationship style that will afford each of you to enhance your time apart while enjoying your time together. You will endeavor to sense and mirror the soul’s perspective of each other’s real needs so to become more of themselves and in this capacity, you will be able to relate more and more.
It has come to pass you have been given a mandate (separate mandate—equality of purposefulness that animates your lives) and that incorporates the work in the world in support of the whole each of you are required to accomplish. You are required to expect from each other nothing but support.
It has been given that each of you have similar karma to adjust in relationships and this will give you stimulus to succeed in breaking down perceived barriers. You have been given only a little time to accomplish these above objectives as souls, so it is important you take advantage of the time together to love each other fully. Your moment of Self-acceptance mentioned above will come at a time when you are separating. This event will be a point for celebration, and this is what you should try to achieve – a relationship never ends karmically unless it ends in Love or Grace.
It is important that this soul relationship mating be accomplished before the Sun sets in Pisces. It is important that you relate to this person or group now by going into your subjective consciousness and locating them vibrationally. To do this requires you to have a description: they have a sense of composure that nothing bothers; they have a sense of compassion in little things; they have a sense of relationship to others that permit them to be in the presence; and they have a sense of joy that isolates the Whole in small things. You are going to find that this relationship will unfold once you believe that you are ready to move into your soul’s purpose for this relationship. It has come to pass that this relationship began in an earlier life and continues into the future for the fruits will not be fully harvested as of yet.
You have been given many examples of the fruits of these relationships potential but there are some downsides also: It is important you find some time to relax into the idea of preparing yourself not for a new relationship with another but with a new relationship with yourself for this is how all relationships unfold.
We, as aspirants to the mysteries of the Heart, have come to a time in our lives where each of us needs to make a decision of what is more important to us, either a successful personality life or successful soul centered life. Each of us recognizes that relationships can bring one or the other but rarely both karmically considered. What type of relationship can you truly live with?
It is important to have a sense of compassion for oneself in a relationship. It is this compassion that permits us to make mistakes yet learn quickly by altering the causative pattern underlying our mistakes without self –derogation.
We are always seeking to find a way to enhance our understanding of ways more conducive to learning important issues responsible for underlying conflict situations before they happen. Thus, a proven method is to evaluate the soul’s position on an important issue before decisions or reactions are allowed to surface. It is in this way the soul can be brought in as a third party for self-discovery.
You must find examples in your present life that inflicts pain when you feel you are present with another and they do not recognize you. It is important to evaluate these events to see what it is that allows the pain to exist. Pain is the reward that one receives when they omit to see themselves or thus another as they are seen. It is in this aloneness that a connection is made to pain. Pain and also pleasure are always the best teachers to the wise.
You have been given an opportunity to reflect upon a path in relationship that does not usurp the position of the soul in establishing authority in the relationship. A relationship where the personality is given this position will ultimately fail. The importance of who is the authority or in control of one’s propensities or habits is represented by the fairy tale of Little Red Riding Hood. This story is about the feminine aspect (a girl symbolizing the personality) who’s propensities to follow her own desires or directors (little red riding hood) strayed from the path that she committed to (mother figure representing the divine soul as nurturer) for others sake (Grandma – the past genetic stream or egoic group) and was consumed (by the wolf or world that tricked her) and had to be saved by the father figure (Huntsman). When we are enticed by the world and its values around us (flowers) and forget our commitments we made as souls with others we quickly lose our way and have to be saved or removed from the relationships one creates through being enticed by the personality’s world’s values and view and not the soul’s values and view.
Second:
A relationship needs to support who you are as a soul; it needs to accommodate these characteristics. What are these major 12-characteristics?
Third:
A relationship needs to support the soul’s world view, and thus the way you choose to work with the personality world. This soul’s world view is like an ambassador that reflects or represents that entity you. What are the real needs that relate you to this ideal world view that require embodying? In your case there are about 120-real needs, what are these?
Fourth:
A relationship needs to respect what you want or your purpose in the relationship as a soul. What do you want in a relationship as a soul? In your case there are about 40-wants. What are these?
Fifth:
A relationship needs to enhance your understanding of yourself. What do you need to know about yourself that a relationship can help you better see? For you there are 14-self understandings, what are these?
Sixth:
A soul-centered relationship needs to support your goals in ways beneficial to everyone. What 12-ways do these goals support?
Seventh:
A relationship needs to separate you from your partner in ways that prevent you from becoming one entity. How can you accomplish this? For you there are 14 ways to enhance this separation wisely, what are they?
Eighth:
A relationship enhances one’s perception of one’s capacity and ability to love. What 14 capacities and abilities to love do you need to have a clearer perspective on and exhibit?
Ninth:
How do you relate to others that minimizes your chance of securing a soul-centered relationship? What are these 14 ways in your case?
We need to understand also the way relationships need to be formed over the long run to enhance their acceptance in the eyes of the soul. There is four ways to enhance this understanding:
First, extend the idea of soul centered education to relationships, it is in this capacity you can begin to perceive a way of working in the world of soul centered education which is similar to soul centered relationships. There are 12 ways of working in the world to enhance soul-centered relationships, what are these?
Second, resort to the concept of you becoming more soul-centered in relationships—what does this mean for you and your next relationship. There are 12 ways of being more soul-centered here that you need to understand, what are these?
Third, have the concept that people in real life have developed certain ways of dealing with the inability to get out of a relationship what they are expecting. There comes a time in everyone’s life where it has no more purpose from the soul point when relationship breaks down and does not work anymore—this life or future life. How does one know when this happens? There are 40 concepts related to correctly ending a relationship, what are these?
Fourth, how does one end it? There are 12 processes to become aware of in this regard, what are they?
All impressions posted herein, denoted and summarized were soul impacted from subjective sources and were mentally registered, organized, recorded, and brain conceptualized, and given contextual composition language. All interpretations of the impression sources herein are the responsibility of the recorder/composer – H.Z.
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